At the same time

Why is it that when one thing in your life starts to go well other parts never do. I'm so happy, work is going pretty good, and I'm going to be starting graduate school, I finished up my semester which went well. So all that is going good, but I haven't been able to hang out with my friends as much as I want and it seems like every person I am interested in dating loses interest in me after a couple of weeks. What is up with that? I'm finaly starting to be interested in actually dating and maybe even having a relationship and what happens? Absolutely nothing. I was talking to this one guy, for a couple of weeks and things seemed to be going great, he seemed totally into me and I was in him, and then afte 2 weeks, he just went cold. And he didn't even say anything to me. I would have liked to know if he wasn't interested, at least I would keep wondering, I mean it's nice to know what is going on.

I think guys are super confusing. I'm not one of those girls that plays a ton of games, I'm pretty straight forward. It's difficult when you have to pretend not to like someone, and not seem too available, all along trying to show him that your interested. I don't know how I'm going to make it in the dating world. I don't think I'm going to have what it takes. I'm not even one of those clingy girls either. I don't call the guy every day and all that crap. I don't know. I've always been a tom boy, and I have a lot of guy friends. I've always been one of the guys, so it's hard for me to flirt and it on guys. It's so funny that guys say that girls are super confusing, and girls say that guys are super confusing. I just don't get how something can be going so well and all of the sudden just stop without a word. I mean say something, at least the girl isn't left waiting and wondering.

It's so weird how not everything in life can be on track at the same time. When I was in a really good relationship school wasn't going so well. Now that school and work is going well the relationship/dating part of my life is nonexistent. Why is that ? Can't everything be great at the same time? I don't even know if I want to be in a serious committed relationship, but I do want to date. Is that asking for too much?